Rebuilding your Life (3)

Confidence and Self-Esteem
Confidence and Self-Esteem are the key to redesigning your life. Have you ever noticed how confident people attract attention? They seem to draw people to them even when they are not necessarily the most (conventionally) attractive person in the room. One of the things that is attractive about them is that they are comfortable with themselves. If you don’t like and accept yourself you can’t expect other people to like and accept you.

The first step on the road to redesigning your life, therefore, is to learn to like yourself. Take a good, long look at yourself and list the things you like about yourself and the things you don’t like. Start to change the things you don’t like and work on acknowledging and enhancing the things you do like. Don’t be shy – ask friends and family what qualities they like about you and add them to your list.

Take up a new hobby or study to get new qualifications – this is a great way to meet like-minded people whilst learning or getting fit.

Once you are happy with your life your confidence and self-esteem will increase.